HE’S TALKING MARRIAGE. HOW DO I HINT ABOUT THE RING I REALLY WANT?
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My man is articulate about matrimony and kids… His mom is articulate grand kids! So we know he will cocktail a subject soon. He asked me a couple of weeks ago about what kind of diamond I’d similar to and we drew a blank! (I consider we was in startle and suspicion he was kidding) How do we discuss it him about a “dream ring” I’ve regularly longed for though sounding crazy? we know this is ostensible to be his large surprise, though we am a small neurotic. I’d rsther than have a large sparkly moissanite ring than him spending a silly volume of income on a genuine diamond. we consider pictures, emails, etc. would be as well obvious. And honestly, we do wish to be surprised. Someone greatfully suggest me a little suggestions!!
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My man is articulate about matrimony and kids… His mom is articulate grand kids! So we know he will cocktail a subject soon. He asked me a couple of weeks ago about what kind of diamond I’d similar to and we drew a blank! (I consider we was in startle and suspicion he was kidding) How do we discuss it him about a “dream ring” I’ve regularly longed for though sounding crazy? we know this is ostensible to be his large surprise, though we am a small neurotic. I’d rsther than have a large sparkly moissanite ring than him spending a silly volume of income on a genuine diamond. we consider pictures, emails, etc. would be as well obvious. And honestly, we do wish to be surprised. Someone greatfully suggest me a little suggestions!!
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TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT…….Don’t make such a big deal out of it
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Find a picture of it and leave the book or page open (folded in the top corner) around the house where you live, he’ll notice it. Even take a Sharpie and circle it. Subtle but he’ll get the point, or at least get fairly close…also, make sure you leave a ring around that’s the right size so he can swipe it to get you the correct size!!
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Drag him to a mall, drag him by the jewelery store and make suggestions, but leave the ultimate decision up to him. This way, unless he’s as dense as lead, he’ll get the hint, and because you still left it up to him, it’ll still be a surprise!
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Good girl! If it were me, I would sit down in person and say, “Honey, remember the question about what kind of ring I’d like? this is what I think…”
Pick the ring out together.
It’s so much better than being surprised with a ring you don’t want.
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just ask him, remember when you asked me what type of ring I would want? well I figured it out.
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Even though you want to be surprised you also want the right ring. You might just have to tell him which one you want for a subtle hint would work. I think it would be better to spell out the one you want better then just hoping he gets the hints and maybe/maybe-not he’ll get the right one.
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No, don’t tell him what you want…especially if he thinks he’s surprising you. You can say a girl at work just got this huge rock from her boyfriend and then give your opinion on what YOU would want and what you didn’t like about hers… lol
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If you are at the point where you are about to be engaged, you should be able to talk to him about anything. If he asks about it again, tell him that you don’t think it’s smart to spend all this money on a real diamond, and you would be happy with something like moissanite. Tell him you rather save the money for things like a house, or just to have savings to build a life together instead.
But think about the type of ring you would like. The cut, and style. If you are that serious- it wouldn’t hurt to go into a few stores so he can see the style you like. If you really feel like you can’t talk about these things, you aren’t ready to marry him.
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well congratulations! just bring it up again…and tell him what you want…unless he’s already gone out and bought it he will appreciate your honesty!
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Take him to the jewelery store and point to the one you want. You can’t be subtle with guys. Congratulations.
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You are a genius. You know and understand the true value of Moissanite over diamonds.
To steer him in your direction about what you like, find pictures of diamond rings but add remarks to the effect that diamonds are really vastly overpriced and that Moissanites are a much better value and out sparkle a diamond any day of the week. But use clipped pictures and have them laying around. And a little white lie, such as a friend of yours is getting married and she too is looking at Moissanite stones.
With Moissianite you get twice the size for half the price and just as strong as a diamond 9.5 on hardness scale. Diamonds are 10, sapphires are 9.
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Tell him, while your discussing those plans for the weding kids ect…. him about the dream ring youve always wanted….. Also tell your close girlsfreinds and or sister about it as he may enlist thier help in picking a ring. Good luck!
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I would walk into jewelery stores or the jewelry counter in stores and look at diamonds. I know my fiance kidded around about marriage and kids for a while before he actually bought the ring and then it was months before he popped the question. So don’t think it’s something that is happening right away b/c he is joking about it and bringing it up.
My future-MIL has introduced me to people as her future-DIL way before the proposal but it was way before the proposal. Just take it in stride for now and causally bring it up.
Once again if you guys are out, mention/suggest dropping by a jewelery store. If you are looking at newspaper ads and see a ring you like on sale, just talk about what a nice cut it is and price. That way he’ll know what you like and in what price range.
But honestly, why not just tell him. You can do it in a jokingly manner.
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Start this out with honesty. Print off an example of what you like and just show it to him. Tell him, “you know the other day when you asked me what kind of ring I liked? “well, I was a bit shocked and surprised by the question and I drew a blank, but now I know what I like”. At least this way, you’ll get close to your dream ring, if not spot on! Best of Luck
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you should definetely let him surprise you. give him hints if you want to but let him decide which one his future wive deserves.
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Let him find pictures of rings you’ve drawn so he’ll know what shape ring you prefer.
Buy catalogs or magazines (Bride’s magazine, catalogs from Sam’s Club, etc) and draw big X’s through designs you DON’T want, that way he’ll see a pattern of what you don’t prefer. That leaves it open for him to surprise you. Let him find these (leave them on the table at your house where he can see them while you’re in the bathroom).
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Suggest talking to him and say remember when you asked what kind of diamond I would like? Well I thought about it and I really don’t know! Can we go to a jewelery store and look at rings sometime to get an idea of what I would want? Then after you get there and decide what settings you like and what shapes. Say to him that you would really like something larger but don’t want to spend ridiculous amounts of money and suggest you know I think I would like a moissanite ring and I like these shapes and I think I want around this size.
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Honey you can’t have your “bling” and be surprised too.
You can, however say something like, Honey, you remember when you asked me what kind of rings I like and I drew a blank… well, I saw this online the other day (show him an article you printed out) and I though something like it would be truly grand…”
That’s about it.
But you cannot be surprised and get precisely the ring you want – so make a choice…
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Personally, when letting a man know what you want there’s no such thing as being too obvious. Hell, when letting ANYONE know what you really want you can’t be too obvious, otherwise how do you expect to get what you want?
I agree with the other folks. Just say “I’ve been thinking about it, and this is what I want.” Simple, straightforward. Men appreciate that.
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so if he asks again then mention what you want if not then be surprised and you can get what you truly want for an anniversary…i agree with you on the moissanite too, i picked a white gold antique looking engagement/wedding band set that was moissanite and i get soooo many compliments…if he had purchased what we could afford in diamonds i probably would have been laughed at…lol so tell him that and don’t sweat all the lil details best wishes
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“Bob, the other day you asked me what kind of ring I’d like. I’ve done some thinking since then and here’s what I’d really like. I would like to have _____________.”